在疑惑中求教

我的孩子,三岁九个月,男孩.最近观察到他的一些问题,想请教各位专家. 孩子两岁入托,现在上小班.原来上托班时和老师配合较好,后来小班老师全部都换掉了,孩子就出现了一些变化.我原以为是不适应, 并没有重视.但是现在小班都快读完了,情况没有好转反而更严重了.下面我将他的一些表现简单描述一下:

1.上课不能很好的安静下来.由于上课时间家长不能进入幼儿园,这点只能听老师讲给我们听.主要是上课时,孩子不像别的小孩一样 老老实实的坐着,而是围着教室转圈乱跑.做操也不认真,常常是看别班的做,自己班老师的命令不是很理睬.

2.吃饭一直要喂,要不就不吃,倒在桌上玩.现在正在家纠正,但是吃饭还是很慢.

3.很喜欢说话,"为什么?""特别多.有时感觉他的说话能力很强,会说一些让人意想不到的话语出来.

4.喜欢跑,但是运动能力不强.三岁才会很好的骑车.荡过几次秋千,基本不会,需要大人推.

5.常常回家述说"幼儿园的人都不喜欢我."认为他在幼儿园感到孤独.

6.很喜欢听妈妈讲故事,听的时候非常专心.某次讲了一个多小时,他居然也安静的听了一个多小时.有时候没有人搭理他的时候,还 能安静的自己看书,一本看完再拿另一本.关注兵器知识,有一友是兵器迷,但结巴.小孩子也能认真的听他讲兵器故事.

7.现在仍然迷念奶瓶,每晚一定要吸完一瓶奶才能睡着.睡觉还要手摸枕头角,而且枕头一定是特定的那一个,别的枕头不要.

8.十分的胆小,电视中如果出现他认为恐怖的画面,他一定是会别过脸的.有次看电视中解剖青蛙时,居然全身发抖.小点的时候还害 怕过蝴蝶,月亮等.一般他认为很危险的动作是绝对不会做的. 他的表现让哦很疑惑,不知道是不是注意力缺陷,或者是小孩还在生长发育中,注意力有些发育不完善,随着年龄的增大会逐渐好转.

请您们讲讲您们的一些看法,或者给我们一点忠告.我们将感谢不尽.

根据你提供的情况，我逐一进行回答。

首先孩子入班太早，2岁，然后是熟悉的老师调走，新老师没能和你的孩子建立良好的关系，这个我认为是问题的成因。所以要改变孩子 在幼儿园中的表现，家长一定要和老师沟通，让老师喜欢你的孩子，多关注，多表扬，可能在幼儿园上课、做操的问题就能解决。

第二、吃饭喂，这是个坏习惯，慢慢纠正，不是个太大问题。

第三、很喜欢说话,"为什么?"是个聪明的表现

第四、加强运动能力培训，没有太大的问题，在这个阶段能把秋千荡起来的人没几个。

第五、仍需和老师沟通，通过老师让别的孩子接近他而解决这个问题。

第六、这也是一个优点。

第七、含奶嘴这是一个坏习惯，固定的枕头和含奶嘴都表现孩子有过分离性焦虑，解决幼儿园中的问题，实在不行请老师吃顿饭也可以。

第八、胆小嘛，你们别再着急，他就好许多。

总而言之，没有注意力问题，是分离性焦虑，和老师沟通是关键，解决了幼儿园的问题，一切问题都迎刃而解。

家长也需要成长，需要学会和老师交流，不行就请老师吃吃饭

对，我们做家长的要科学的看待问题。和大家多多交流。有些是问题，有些却是正常的反应。

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幼儿时期这种表现不一定是多动症，但多动症的孩子几乎从婴幼儿时期就表现异常，我儿子就是如此，打生下来就异常难带。

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